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- I traveled home to see him, and all I could talk about was my belt.
Now I'm grounded because he's my dad and I have to do what he says. I wish I could go back in time and make sure I didn't use the ring on him. The only bright side to me being my teenage son is that he has a hot body.
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It's not as good as mine was but it will have to do for the time being. Last is just a blur. I remember coming home with the ring.
I waited till dinner to use it because I wanted to see his reaction of the transformation. As we were eating dinner and I put the ring on and stated that I wished to be my 13 year old son. I soon felt a weird sensation in my body. I felt like I was shrinking. My whole body was shrinking.
An Open Letter to My Dad
I develop an idea that I will interview him for some spurious work project and then with a recording device between us, talk to him about his life. I can tell him I'm thinking of writing something about the heatwave of I am always thinking of writing something about the heatwave of — that much is true. He sits staring intently at the TV screen. I sit in the rocking chair on the other side of the room, deleting emails on my iPhone. Four decades' worth of minimal, just about functional conversation has left us completely unprepared for this juncture, even though its arrival was one of the few certainties that could have been predicted.
Eventually, driven to the edge of agitation, I stand up and yell: "Look at the state on this belt. It is true that my belt has seen better days.
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What looked like leather under harsh TK Maxx lighting has revealed itself to be some kind of man-made material substitute that wears down in sections to a frayed, discolored mesh with little or no encouragement. It's clearly got less than a week of usefulness left in it. He almost leaps to action: "I've got a spare belt. You can have it. It's upstairs. In my mom and dad's room, he hands me a belt, still in its polythene wrapping.
I remove the old one and replace it. And we stand there for a while, a human Venn diagram. The year-old who only communicates freely by talking about driving and decorating, or by complaining about other people, and the year-old who only communicates freely by talking about music and complaining about his health, with the thin sliver of overlap represented by the presence of a brand new belt. He turns around and walks down the stairs, so I follow behind him. I can feel the air thickening between us into something that is almost tactile. I feel like I could punch a hole in the distance between us.
He pauses at the front room door and his hand doesn't reach the handle. Is he going to say something? I notice that his fingers are grabbing for the handle but are not reaching it, and I realize just in time that this is because he's falling backward. I catch him and then finally break the silence with two syllables: "Here you are.
Except I don't say, "Here you are. Later, when he's lying down upstairs, I have a cup of tea with my mom and it all comes out at once. His white blood cell count must have dropped right down. I was just relieved that the cancer board agreed to operate. I mean, he's Get our newsletter for the best of ABC Life each week. Reflecting now, with the gift of hindsight, I can imagine a quick and painless end that could have been but I'll never know what would have happened, had we not given Dad the intervention of the drip.
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I traveled home to see him, and all I could talk about was my belt.
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